Be Careful!!!!!!
The TC has to slip onto the splined shaft and then also the two ears into the pump. You'll feel it hit twice. You need to keep spinning the TC while pushing in on it at the same time. Sometimes it doesn't want to slip in without giving a fight. You MUST do this step or you will ruin the pump in the transmission...trust me, I know! I did the same thing one time. I ended up tightening the tranny to engine bolts before checking the TC, and I ended up crushing the front pump. When the TC is properly seated, you will have at least an inch or more between the flexplate the TC after the tranny and engine are bolted together. Then you slide the TC forward to meet up with the flexplate.
Take your time, make sure it's right, or else you'll have to pull the tranny to get the front pump repaired.
If you have already tightened the bellhousing bolts all the way down, chances are pretty good that you've already ruined the pump in the transmission, and that's why you can't get the TC to seat all the way in.
Casey
1995 K1500 Tahoe 2 door, 6.5LTD, 4L80E, NP241, 3.42's, 285/75R16 BFG K02's; 1997 506 block; Kennedy OPS harness, gauges, Quick Heat plugs, and TD-Max chip; Dtech FSD on FSD Cooler; vacuum pump deleted, HX35 turbo, Turbo Master, 3.5" Kennedy exhaust, F code intake; dual t/stats, HO water pump, Champion radiator; Racor fuel filter